1. Adapt to marriage
Regrettably, many relationships tend to fail at the beginning of the relationship, when the life of newlyweds ceases to be fun and becomes adaptive.
As the husband struggles to adapt to married life, he tends to see and recognize the needs of his wife at the beginning of the relationship. This makes him more prepared to cope with marital crises that arise over two lifetimes.
Adaptation is born of the sincere desire to seek happiness for the family, it will not allow the partner to forget his wife, indulging in selfish and petty desires.
Trust in marriage is the prime issue and must be won because it develops the means of adaptation in marriage, as couples get accepted in the ups and downs of the relationship.
2. Assume your responsibilities
Every newly married husband and all those who have a wedding to a golden wedding are liable to lose their families if they give up their responsibilities at home.
There are many homes where men give up their role as head of household when they neglect their responsibilities as spouse and father. Unfortunately, this is the crux of the relationship, where conflicts create life, resentments are built and divorce takes control of the home.
A married man should never flee from the commitment of being a husband and father, and so does the woman as wife and mother, since the couple must live in partnership and complicity. Thus, the wife honors her role as a woman and it is also up to the husband to honor his role as a man, as provider and caregiver of his family.
3. Offer more quality than stability
A successful marriage needs more quality than stability because when a couple seeks the best for the family, they will not run away from the problems and seek ways to solve them together. They will also strive to give the spouse and children the high quality of communication, respect, and love in the home.
However, when a husband seeks stability, this man is bound to comfort and thinks that he can fill the children and his wife with material goods. Sometimes this husband also believes that in the face of disagreements a gift is enough to stop the problems when, in fact, this only tends to take the dirt under the rug.
A high-quality relationship is composed of couples who deal with whatever it takes to provide happiness to one another and especially to the children.
4. Enhance it and not diminish it
At the time of dating, most lovers only see the positive in their partners, seek to raise them to the maximum, find their potential in them and make them unique in their lives. They believe in the best in them, they do not allow them to give up on themselves or their goals.
However, when the wedding arrives and the wedding vows are assumed as if in the blink of an eye, everything is forgotten. What has been exalted before is despised and diminished, so humiliations, cursing and quarreling come to life in the relationship and love is completely skinned in the home.
The choice to praise the wife, pointing out her potential is what will allow her to improve the quality of a good husband, but also tends to save the relationship and provide happiness in the home.
5. Love her as a woman and not as a mother.
Every husband should look at his wife as a woman and not as a mother, incredible as it may seem, this tends to arise in the lives of newlyweds, especially when the routine becomes part of the couple’s life, and the surprises of the beginning of the relationship, like flowers, messages and chocolates lose their value.
Regrettably, this husband begins to see his wife as the woman who washes his clothes, prepares the meal, cleans the house, calls his and his children’s attention to mistakes and responsibilities. Then, there went the desired and beloved wife, being replaced by the second mother.
Even though we have an unwavering commitment to the spouse, most do not realize how marriage deteriorates by slow erosion if it is not continually revived.
The small things of the beginning of the courtship, such as admiring, supporting, giving, declaring and loving much must be preserved and not forgotten. Remembering that these things also must be renewed continually.
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