There’s an old joke that rocket
science is way easier than trying to figure out what goes on inside a woman’s
head. And if you have any experience in dating, chances are that you will
definitely agree.
Especially when it comes to the signs she wants you to chase her.
Especially when it comes to the signs she wants you to chase her.
In the dating game, men have to make
the first move. And if you do, you are faced with two outcomes: come out too
strong and she’ll think you’re a creep and run for the hills. If you come on to
her gently, she’ll say you lacked effort. To these, menfolk say, “Make up your
mind, ladies!”
Do women really want to be chased?
The easy answer is yes. But to be
specific, women want to be chased by the guy that catches their interest. Women
are less likely to find difficulty in attracting the opposite sex compared to
men.
As a result, they simply make them
wait and chase her until she finds the right one for her. In short, she wants
you to chase her to get to know if you’re a keeper. She tests you to see if
you’re worth dating in the end. Women won’t directly tell you that they like
you, but they put out subtle cues to keep you hooked on her.
Signs she wants you to chase
her
For this reason, it is crucial men
pay attention to the subtle cues women give that tell you when to stop chasing
her or when to go forth and continue to shower her with affection.
#1 She’s hot and cold at the same
time. Most guys will be familiar when a
girl blows hot and cold at the same time. It is that semi-annoying thing they
do where they act all friendly and flirty at one time of the day. When you
reciprocate the same affection, she suddenly acts cold and avoids you suddenly.
When this happens, just go for it.
She means no harm, and she merely wants you to chase after her.
#2 She replies quickly to your
messages. When a girl replies quickly to your
messages at any point of the day, it is an obvious sign that she’s looking
forward to hearing from you. It means she likes you and wants you to keep
reaching out to her.
#3 She readily says yes to
invitations. When a girl wants you to get off
her back, she quickly dismisses any coffee or dinner invitations. She’ll
probably say her schedule is full. However, if a girl likes you and she wants
you to keep pursuing her, she’ll find a way to accept your invitation even if
it means canceling previous plans.
#4 She keeps careful attention to
how she looks when you’re together.
You’ll notice this when you catch her on her own wearing plain clothes compared
to days when she’s meeting you. This doesn’t mean that she’ll dress to the
nines on a date, but the difference is noticeable. Obviously, she dresses up
because she wants your attention.
#5 She makes meaningful conversation when you are alone. Not superficial things like what’s new on Netflix or random work gossip, girls who want to be pursued give you a little peek into their personal life by meaningful conversations. She wants you to have the same curiosity by showing you a little behind-the-scenes side of her.
#6 She teases you. Teasing means a lot of things and interpreted in a lot of
ways. But if you find her teasing you a little bit, it means she’s comfortable
around you and warmed up to your company past the stiff and “formal”
interaction stage. This is considered the next step and is a cue for you to
keep moving forward.
#7 She reaches out to you
incessantly if you stop communicating with her. There are times that the chase gets a bit too tiring and
you decide to stop for a while. Lo and behold, a role reversal happens, and she
starts initiating communication to you.
What is this sorcery? Well, it’s an
obvious sign she’s worried you’ve given up. A subtle hint that she wants you to
keep up with the chase.
#8 She acts mysterious sometimes. Either by giving you vague responses when confronting her
about the possibility of dating, or whenever you find yourself alone with her.
Acting mysterious is a tactic girls use to see if you are persistent enough to
dig deeper into her life. Also, it adds romance to the whole courting affair.
#9 She avoids the big question. At some point you arrive at a situation where you want to
ask her whether you’re ready to be an item after all the courtship.
And when you do, she tries to avoid
the topic or veers it off in another direction. It’s not that she doesn’t want
to, and eventually, she may say yes, but girls really love to take your time
and dangle the carrot a little bit longer. So, have patience.
#10 She doesn’t interact with you
much, but she says that she misses you.
This is quite mindboggling. You will notice this when she turns down invites,
but then she tells you that she missed you. If she truly misses you she’ll hang
out with you more often. This obvious sign shows that she wants you to keep
pursuing her.
#11 She asks you if you missed her. She asks this teasingly most of the time. The best way to
respond is to say yes and invite her out for a date. That leaves her cornered
with little choice but to say yes.
#12 She plays hard to get. Men have a love-hate relationship with girls playing hard
to get. It can be confounding as what she says doesn’t correlate to what she
does. She might say that she’s not interested, but her flirting and touchiness
says otherwise. When a girl plays hard to get, it obviously means she wants you
to chase her.
In a perfect world, dating would be
easier if women straightforwardly respond to your advances. Women want to make
sure you’re for real so there will always be the chasing stage. It is up to you
to recognize the signs she’s giving off
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