One
day, you find yourself looking at your girl friend as more than just a friend
who happens to be a girl.
If
you play your cards right, you may be able to turn your girl friend into a
girlfriend in no time.
If
you are a single guy, chances that are there is a babe at your place of work,
on your street, church or on your Instagram that you are really mad over.
Being
silently mad over someone is not enough. You have to let them know about this
crush by either sliding into that DM, walking up to them in person or better
still, by following these sure-as-hell tips:
1.
Don’t sweat it
If
you are getting yourself worked up with the thought of getting your crush, you
are doing it wrong.
“Ask
yourself, ‘what’s the worst that could happen?’” Uwanma advises.
It’s
either she says ‘yes’ or says ‘no.’
Only
one of these two things can ever happen, and even if she says no, there’s still
a chance that she’ll change her mind in the nearest future if you stick with
the tips provided here.
So,
what’s the point in overthinking and getting yourself overly worked up about
it?
2.
First become her friend
Experience
and comments from many women have firmly confirmed that the best way to get any
woman is to be friends with her first. It is better to get close and
familiarize yourself with her. Get to know her likes, dislikes. Go out on few
dates and then pop the question when she’s really comfortable with being with
you.
It
is better this way than walking up to a random person and asking them for a
relationship on the very contact you have with them, says the vlogger.
3.
Body language
You
can also gauge your chances with her by the things she does after you have
become friends.
“Most
times when a woman is into you,”
Uwanma
candidly says,
“while
she won’t necessarily tell you, she will keep doing stuff to you that’ll point
to the fact.”
Most
times, her body language speaks volumes about whether she likes you or not –
she touches your hand, face, shoulder, leans into you… it goes on and on.
That
way, you could somewhat gauge your chance of succeeding with her.
4.
Ask casually and maturely
Asking
a babe to share a part of her life with you is not a matter of life and death,
and should not be treated as such.
Don’t
go all teary-eyed, and overly-emotional about it. And also try not be childish
about your reaction if she says no.
Don’t
forget, there are always two possible answers when you try this: she either
says yes, or no.
5.
A ‘No’ could change later
Women
appreciate patience and men who treat them well, Uwanma says.
If
she does not say yes now, it does not necessarily mean the answer can’t change.
So there’s no need to be rude or give up.
Gentle
persistence without being pushy or extra about the whole thing could eventually
clear the path for you.
The
video below provides clearer insight into this topic, watch.
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