Thousands of women have kept mute about whether or not their s.ex life is satisfying. If satisfying your woman is important to you, then you ought to consider this six signs that you are not doing it right.
1.
She gives excuses
Sure, there will be times both partners do not feel like
having se.x, but if it sounds like all she has to offer these days are excuses,
excuses and more excuses, then it might simply be because she is not feeling
you. Women who enjoy se.x want more s.ex. But is she avoids you every chance
she gets, then se.x must not be very fun for her.
2.
Her o.rgasm is not priority
Female
or.gasm takes some time and focus to achieve. She needs to put in the mental
effort as much as you need to put in some physical efforts. Since this takes so
long, (studies say at least 20 minutes) it requires some amount of dedication on
her part. If she would rather have fast, quick se.x, then she does not care
about her o.rgasm. Her only reason for not caring will because she does not
find s.ex with you very satisfying.
3. She would rather ma/sturbate
3. She would rather ma/sturbate
While her m.asturbating does not have to be a
bad thing, as this means she is more connected to her s.exuality and knows what
works for her body, if she will rather do this than have se.x with you, then
you are not satisfying her. Masturbation is great to add a little spice, or if
you have to be apart for a while, but turning down se.x with you when you know
she makes time for some self love can be a red flag.
4. She takes control
4. She takes control
Normally,
her giving you a little bit of tips here and there for how to please her is
fine, but if se.x is starting to sound like a lecture, then you are doing
something wrong. A bit of guidance is great, but if it’s starting to feel like
she’s constantly teaching you how to have s.ex with her from scratch, you’re
probably not that good.
5. She is not with you mentally
5. She is not with you mentally
For great
s.ex to happen, your partner needs to be mentally focused on the act. If it
seems like she zones out or has her mind on other things during s.ex, then it
might be because she is not feeling it.
6. She likes it fast
6. She likes it fast
Sure,
quickies are fun for many reasons, but slow lovemaking also has its perks. If
it always seems like she rushes through it all or wants you to rush through,
then you might not be pleasing her. She might skip things like foreplay or oral
se.x, and would rather go to the positions that makes you cum faster. She
basically wants to get it over with.
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