РSpend time together: Spending time together will make you to know more about each other as you become expos̩ to your spouse. Trust is built, love increases and marriage becomes better.
– Effective Communication: Don’t just spend time together, but spend time together communicating effectively. Transparency only comes out of effective communication as you talk as friends, lovers and as partners. To have effective communication, you must open your heart as you talk not just you mouth. You must learn to talk openly, deeply, truthfully, joyfully, fearlessly, continuously, totally, respectfully and romantically. When you talk at this level, the level of communication will be maximum and your marriage will become stronger.
– Speak the Truth: I need to emphasize that truth is the foundation of transparency. As you communicate with your spouse, say what you mean and mean what you say.
Don’t ever tell your spouse lies, it destroy trust and hurts marriage relationship deeply. Nothing destroys transparency like dishonesty and lies. Even when you are telling the truth later your spouse will not take you serious.
– Be faithful and let your spouse know you do: Don’t ever give room for sexual immorality and don’t allow your spouse to think you are not faithful. Do everything to be open to your spouse, don’t spend unaccountable time with opposite sex, don’t be closer to any opposite sex than your mate.
– Your spouse have the right to know the kind of relationship you have with any opposite sex that is close to you and for what reason.
– Avoid pornography like plague, your spouse will never trust you if he or she knows you are hook on pornography.
– Pray together always with your spouse: praying together Build love and friendship and make you to be more open to each other, making your marriage better and stronger.
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