In an open letter titled: "Letter to Husbands", popular
Lagos-based psychologist and relationship therapist, Joro Olumofin, took
taken to his Instagram page and advised Nigerian men to have s*x with
their wives as much as 16 times a week, and oral s*x five times a week,
to keep their marriages strong, adding that it is their duty, no
excuses.
The flamboyant relationship consultant and socialite, also asked
men not have have passwords for their phones or any device, and if
having one is necessary, their wives should know it.
Other advises he gave were not to waste the wife’s food, serving
her breakfast in bed everyday as well as having a prayer and fasting
schedule with her.
Here's the letter in full below;
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Letter to Husbands - "You should have sex with your wife at least 16 times a week" (Case study; Nigerian men)
Society has put so much pressure on women these days. If a man
cheats it's his wife's fault for not "keeping him or satisfying him",
this notion is absolutely wrong. There are a million things a woman is
asked to do just to keep her man, but there is no list of things a man
is asked to do to keep his woman.
We Men make it seem like women want to get married more than us and
we're doing them a favor by committing or being in a relationship. Most
Men act like they are the only ones who are granted free PASS to cheat
or it is their right to cheat. Women can cheat as well but they choose
to be loyal in relationships for Love, peace sake and to keep their
homes.
Here are a list of things that Husbands should do to make their relationship work:
1. S*x : You should have s*x with your wife at least 16 times a
week and Oral s*x 5 times a week. This is your duty as man. It is your
responsibility. No excuses
2. You must not have passwords on your phone or any device. If passwords are necessary, your wife should have them all.
3. You must not let her food waste. A happy married man shouldn't be seen eating outside only lunch at work is allowed.
4. Bring your wife breakfast in bed and bring back a gift from work
everyday. Every single day. Even if it is fruits, a wig, a painting or
flowers.
5. Prayer schedule. Fix a prayer & fasting routine once a month with your wife to tackle personal issues.
6. Even if she has a job. She deserves a weekly or monthly allowance of at least N100,000.
7. Men complain that their wives don't look the same as when they
first met. A lot of men have pot bellies too. Work on your physical
appearance.
8. Listen to her. No matter how tired or busy you are. Listen to her and gossip with her.
If you don't appreciate your wife. She may seek appreciation
elsewhere. It's a full time job to be a good wife. Make it a full time
job to be a good husband.
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