As per Lola Omotayo, she has gotten such a large number of DMs from individuals who ask her how she handles cynicism which is continually tossed at her.
Dwindle Okoye's better half additionally uncovered that she 'outrage just damages and what individuals believe is not your issue to worry about'.
She wrote;
People send me DM’s asking me how I remain sane and composed when so much negativity is thrown my way and my answer to you is simple:
Anger only hurts you! What people think of you is none of your business, you just need to live your truth!
When your sense of satisfaction and self-worth is derived from the opinions of strangers then truly you are not in control of your happiness.
This constant need for validation from randoms is so unhealthy. We are always told to stay away from negative vibes or negative people but then how will you grow your
Love and Compassion if there is no one to upset you, hate you, hurt you or rub you the wrong way? Only YOU are responsible for your psychic hygiene,
only you can clear and fill your energy with love and goodness every day, no one can do it for you and you can only do so through life experiences good and bad.
Aim to be kind to your enemies and haters. Your acts of kindness are never wasted because ultimately,
God sees your heart and that is really what matters at the end of the day. Wishing you a blessed week my Insta-fam!
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