Mistakes men make: Good relationships are hard to find. People find their special someone but very often fail to nurture their relationship afterwards.
Most men put their best foot forward when they pursue the women they love, but their effort diminishes as their relationship develops and progresses. This eventually causes their relationship to break apart. However this does not mean that only men are to be blamed for failed relationships. There are two sides to every coin, women also engage in things that ruin relationships. But here, we would be focusing only on what men do to make relationships go sour.
These are
ten of the biggest mistakes that men make in relationships.
He fails to be the man
He fails to be the man
Every
woman wants her man to he her knight in shining armor. Every guy should show
confidence and command over every situation. A girl should always feel safe
knowing her man can protect her from every situation. It is also important that
you know how to make firm decisions for yourself and for both of you. In short,
be the man!
He wants
her to see things his way
All men
admit that they may never fully understand the way women think. But to make a
relationship work, a guy has to accept that men and women have a different way
of understanding and accepting things. A man cannot expect a woman to always
see things the way he does because she will always have her own perspective and
views about certain issues.
He is a doormat
Women like it when guys make sacrifices for
her. But if a guy allows the girl to dominate him in a relationship then she
might just lose all respect for him. A guy should be able to make a girl feel
special without compromising his dignity and self-respect.
He makes
her feel unimportant
Every girl should feel that she is important
to the man she is in a relationship with, otherwise she will begin to question
his love for her. Some guys become too busy or distracted with other things
that they forget that their partner needs time and attention too. It’s just a
matter of time before a girl gives up on a guy who makes her feel neglected and
unimportant.
He is
insensitive to her feelings
Women are more sensitive than men,
and guys should know that. Women also tend to say that they are okay even if
there is something bothering them. A man should be sensitive enough to read
between the lines and he should be aware when things don’t seem to be okay
between them. He should be aware of his partner’s feelings and he should always
be ready let her know that he is there to comfort her when she is down. Failing
to recognize when a woman is sad or angry at you often leads to a lot of
conflict in a relationship.
He has
lost her trust and respect
Trust and respect are two important factors in
keeping a relationship strong. If a guy does things that make a girl lose her
trust and respect for him, then he can never make her see him the same way she
did before. Guys who cheat and lie will never be able to handle a relationship
well.
He becomes
the enemy
A woman should feel safe with her
man. He should be the guy she runs to whenever she has a problem. But when a
guy fails to support a girl in her time of need, or he opposes the things that
matter to her then she will begin to see him more of an enemy than her partner.
He is too
selfish Successful
relationships require a give and take
between a man and a woman. If a guy is too self absorbed, then their
relationship is a one way street that leads to a dead end.
He forgets
to appreciate her
To a
woman, every little compliment counts. It makes her unhappy when her man fails
to appreciate her and her efforts to make him happy. If she is constantly
criticized by the one person she seeks approval from, then there is a chance
that she will get tired of being ignored.
He fails to dream with her
He fails to dream with her
Lastly, every girl wants a guy whom she can
share a future with. She wants him to make plans and have dreams for both of
them. If a guy becomes too busy trying to achieve a certain career and the girl
has to make sacrifices for him, then he will only make her unhappy. And if
there is no place for her in his future plans then she may think that there is
no point in holding on. To err is human. But every guy must be aware of the
biggest mistakes he could make that will cost him his precious relationship
with his girl. I suggest that men should read more about how to keep their
women happy, through the many websites and books that . Author Bio:-Sylvia
Smith is a relationship expert with years of experience in training and helping
couples. She has helped countless individuals and organizations around the
world, offering effective and efficient solutions for healthy and successful
relationships. Her mission is to provide inspiration, support and empowerment
to everyone on their journey to a great marriage. She is a featured writer for
Marriage.com, a reliable resource to support healthy happy marriages.
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