Many people keep wondering why good girl always date bad boys, well here are some reasons why they do.
1. She may have seen something familiar: “Let’s say her father or brothers were bad boys, she may just notice the same emotional traits and characteristics in a bad boy she likes and this will make it easier to date him”.
2. She wants someone who is a complete opposite: “She may want to come out of her shell, take the risk and find someone who goes at a faster pace than she does”.
3. She thinks he needs to be saved: “A good girl may see a bad boy as having a troubled soul hence his horrible attitude, she thinks the only way to save him from himself is to begin a relationship hoping he would learn in the long run”.
4. She thinks she can fix him: “Many “good girls” enter into relationships with guys who are on the wild side is the drive to rescue or to salvage what she may see as a troubled soul, in reality changing a personality is impossible unless the other person recognizes the issue and genuinely wants to make a change to keep the relationship healthy”.
5. She wants something totally new: “For some women choosing a guy who is a complete opposite and offers a change of pace, new adventure and even a bit of controlled risk is a big attractor, however, women often fail to understand that the risk-taking isn’t something that is carefully thought out and, with time, the risk will increase and the adventure will become more and more stressful and destructive”.
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