Often times, a stadiometer is used for clinical tests and experiments. Studies have shown that many people around the world tend to share obvious similarities in height. People of same genetic background tend to share same average height. Today, we have people of same stature like the dwarfs, the giants and so on. No doubt, genetic and other considerable factors are solely responsible for these disparities in height.
Now, the big question is, “Does height matter in a relationship”? In other words, should one be in a hurry to pick or drop a lover just because of his/her height? Obviously, there are many things to address in respect to this question. Another sensitive question that is relevant in relationship to the subject matter on ground is: “In a relationship, what does height mean to individuals?” Whether tall or short, do you know that many people see below height while others see beyond height in relationships?. More often than not, people tend to consider several things before going for a man or woman. I tell you, height has always topped the list. One now wonders, does it really matter in a relationship? If it does, to what extent.
Many persons usually find it difficult winning the love of a man or woman whereas it takes others months or possibly years to have a man or woman of their dream by their side. Now, if it should take someone that period of time to achieve this feat, should height be considered before making one’s new found lover stay?. Severally, people do parade lists of inexhaustible traits they wish to see in someone before going after the person. Traits like honesty, obedience, faithfulness, perseverance, caring, Godly, and so on. Also, there have been cases where people find a man or woman with some of these endearing qualities, yet they often end up turning their backs on the person just because of “height issue”. If you as a woman think that height is tied with beauty in relationship, then hear the words of Manprit Kaur’ “Always remember, that YOU are the most beautiful woman in the world. Your weight, your height, your eyes, your scars, your idiosyncrasies, your complexion, and your sartorial choices have nothing to do with beauty. The mirror lies darling. It does. Your heart is where all the beauty rests. And of course, it’s your smile that sprinkles a dash of magic! The world is a better place because of your gorgeous smile. Never walk out without a smile on our face, a zing in your step, and a high dose of faith in your heart.”
Now, talking about height in relationships, it is pertinent note the following:
Being
short or tall doesn’t define you. You should always carry yourself with a sense
of dignity because your height may repel someone while it might attract someone
to you. Also, relationships should not be built on frivolities. If considering
people’s heights will give you an edge in your relationship, then go on but if
otherwise, then think twice.
Comparing
one’s height with another doesn’t change anything. As much as possible, be at
your best each time you think about your height.
Character
is the bedrock in relationships. Learn to groom and improve yours.
Confidence
about/in one’s height is also essential. One shouldn’t mess up because of
his/her height.
Your gait,
dress, talks and manners shouldn’t always send wrong signal to people that you
are too short or too tall. Be at your best always.
Height is a product of genetic and environment
factors. Hence, blame no one. In conclusion, the big question still lurks
around, “does height matter in a relationship?” You know answer, right?.
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